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There is a certain sexual excitement that comes from the forbidden, from the thought of the unknown, from the anticipation of exploring a new body. As my day dreams run wild and my blood starts to heat up I run for either my husband or one of my special “toys.” There is nothing wrong with fantasying, in fact I encourage it and for some there is nothing wrong with the occasional fling. We just haven’t decided if it is for us or not. We have talked of it on occasion each revealing a little more of our secret fantasies whether it be switching partners, threesomes or completely anonymous sex. I wonder often if the reason we have not joined the lifestyle is because really it is not sex that we fantasy about but the excitement leading up to the actual act.

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2011-07-16 15:26:36
Tenia Irby

Where is the third option?  And the fourth, and fifth, and sixth?  Bottom line is there is no clear cut yes or no to this question.  Many factors must be considered such as the nature and degree of the "relationship" that is being stepped out on as well as the reasoning behind this open policy.  Are you agreeing to the open relationship because you are looking for something more  that you're not getting from your current partner?  Or are the two of you totally on point and you're just looking to share your blessings with others?  Either way you slice it the Who, What, Where, Why, How, and When if Ever again that typically follows is a deal breaker.  Coupling involves two... if your current needs and desires calls for more it's time to consider switching back over to the single plan.