There is a certain sexual excitement that comes from the
forbidden, from the thought of the unknown, from the anticipation of exploring
a new body. As my day dreams run wild and my blood starts to heat up I run for
either my husband or one of my special “toys.” There is nothing wrong with fantasying,
in fact I encourage it and for some there is nothing wrong with the occasional
fling. We just haven’t decided if it is for us or not. We have talked of it on
occasion each revealing a little more of our secret fantasies whether it be
switching partners, threesomes or completely anonymous sex. I wonder often if
the reason we have not joined the lifestyle is because really it is not sex
that we fantasy about but the excitement leading up to the actual act.
J Q
